15 Dog Behaviors That Improve With Firm Boundaries (And Here’s How)

That sinking feeling when your dog misbehaves in front of guests? You’re not alone. Dogs aren’t born knowing the rules of your house. And it’s not always obvious how to teach them. But once you notice the patterns, you can fix them. Let’s break down what to look for and how to fix it.

Pulling On The Leash

It starts like a tug-of-war. Except you’re the only one who seems to care about walking straight. Most dogs pull because they’re excited, not rebellious. Using a front-clip harness can help reduce the urge. Combine it with consistent stop-and-go walking. Eventually, they’ll figure out you lead the way.

Jumping On People

Grandma doesn’t want muddy paw prints on her sweater. Jumping is often a sign of affection or excitement. But it can scare or injure people. You should teach your dog to “sit” in the default greeting. Reward calm behavior fast before their feet leave the floor. Timing matters more than scolding.

Barking At Strangers

“Who’s that?” barked your dog. Again. And again. Excessive barking can stem from fear or plain old boredom. Acknowledge the alert, then redirect with a quiet cue and treat. Silence should feel rewarding. According to the ASPCA, ignoring barking won’t work unless the root emotion is addressed.

Chewing On Furniture

Teething puppies and anxious adults alike turn to chew. Offer a rotating selection of chew toys; think textures and flavors. Moreover, bitter apple spray can help deter repeat offenses. Most importantly, supervise closely until their teeth pick toys over table corners.

Begging For Food

You take one bite, and there it is: that stare. Begging happens when scraps fall often. Even one is enough for them to try again. Feed your dog before you eat. Then, send them to a designated “place” like a mat. No eye contact, no sympathy. Dogs are expert guilt-trippers.

Digging In The Yard

Dirt is flying, paws are pounding, and your backyard looks like a minefield. Some breeds dig because it’s instinct. Others are just bored. Create a designated dig zone filled with toys or sand. Or add mental stimulation to reduce the urge altogether. A tired dog usually leaves the lawn alone.

Ignoring Recall Commands

You yell, “Come!” and they vanish like smoke. That’s why it’s important to practice the recall commands indoors first, with small wins and irresistible rewards. Work your way up to outdoor distractions slowly. Never scold them after they return because coming back should always feel like a win.

Chasing After Cars

As per your dog, “That squirrel’s got four wheels and a death wish.” Car-chasing is part instinct, part excitement, and all danger. Use a secure leash setup and redirect attention before they fixate. Teaching a rock-solid “watch me” cue gives them something better to focus on.

Stealing Household Items

Your socks? Claimed. Remote? Also claimed. Dogs often grab objects for attention or stress relief. Don’t chase; trade. Offer a toy or treat to exchange, and praise the switch. Keep valuables out of reach until the habit fades. Also, “Leave it” and “Drop it” become the magic words here.

Pottying Indoors

A surprise puddle on the rug isn’t just gross. It’s frustrating. If this happens, rule out medical issues first. Then, go back to basics. Scheduled bathroom breaks, crate training, and praise for outdoor success work wonders. Also, remember, accidents aren’t rebellion. They’re usually confusion or poor timing.

Excessive Whining

Your dog’s whine might rival a broken violin, but don’t ignore it. Whining can indicate pain or separation anxiety, so take time to acknowledge and assess the situation before distracting them. However, avoid giving in to every squeak, and remember that reinforcing silence can be tricky but achievable.

Biting During Play

That playful nip drew blood—definitely not cool. Mouthing is normal, especially in puppies, but pressure matters. Teach “gentle” by freezing play when it gets too rough and resume when they calm down. While dogs learn bite inhibition best from peers early on, humans can help, too, without yelling or yanking.

Being Overprotective

Your dog guards the door like it’s Fort Knox. This behavior can stem from anxiety or insecurity. Counter it with confidence-building routines and calm exposure to new people or pets. Teaching a reliable “place” command helps them feel involved without leading the charge.

Waking You Up Early

That 5 a.m. nose nudge? Less adorable by day three. Dogs thrive on routine. If breakfast or walks come right after wake-up, they’ll start setting the alarm. Mix up your morning order and wait for calm before opening crates. A blackout curtain can also help if sunrise triggers the rustling.

Running Out The Door

The door swings open, and they’re off—no goodbye. Door dashers need boundaries. Teach “wait” at thresholds and reward patience. Practice with a leash on at first. Use barriers like baby gates if needed. A consistent ritual before opening the door makes them think twice and keeps them out of traffic.