I’ve Had a Pit Bull for 7 Years Now—Here’s What People Get Wrong About Them
For seven years now, I’ve shared my home—and heart—with a pit bull named Luna. And if I had a dollar for every time someone flinched, side-eyed, or nervously asked, “Is she safe?” I could probably buy her a lifetime supply of treats.
The truth is, owning a pit bull comes with a lot of assumptions, most of them wildly off-base and fueled by media hype, outdated stereotypes, and flat-out myths.
When I first brought Luna home, I didn’t fully realize the social baggage that came with her breed.
I was prepared for potty training, leash-pulling, and the occasional stolen sock—not judgmental stares, awkward sidewalk detours, or apartment neighbors treating us like we were harboring a wild animal.
But over the years, I’ve learned to take it in stride and, more importantly, I’ve learned just how misunderstood these dogs truly are. Because here’s the thing: pit bulls are not the monsters they’re made out to be.
They’re not born angry, they don’t have supernaturally locking jaws, and they’re not a threat to humanity by default.
Luna is the biggest cuddlebug I’ve ever met. She’d rather spoon on the couch than guard the house. She loves kids, plays well with other dogs, and is afraid of the vacuum cleaner.
So I’m here to set the record straight—not just as a dog lover, but as someone who has lived with a pit bull for nearly a decade.
If you’ve ever questioned what pit bulls are really like, this one’s for you. Let’s bust some myths and meet the gentle, goofy, loyal dogs hiding behind all that bad PR.
1. They’re Naturally Aggressive
Let’s get this out of the way: aggression is not a pit bull personality trait—it’s a behavior issue that can affect any breed.
Just like a chihuahua can be snappy or a golden retriever can be overly territorial, a pit bull’s temperament depends heavily on how they’re raised.
In fact, many pit bulls are some of the sweetest, most affectionate dogs you’ll meet. They love to snuggle, follow you around like shadows, and lean in for pets like it’s their full-time job.
When you take time to understand their body language and needs, you’ll realize how unfair the “aggressive” label really is.
2. They’re Not Good With Kids
If I had to describe Luna’s relationship with kids in one word, it would be “adoration.” She lights up around children—tail wagging, body wiggling, eager to play gently or simply lay near them while they read or watch cartoons.
Pit bulls are known for their loyalty and patience, which makes them great companions for families.
Sure, supervision is key—as it is with any dog—but labeling them as unsafe around kids is not only inaccurate, it’s harmful. They can be nurturing, protective, and incredibly in tune with young humans.
3. They Can’t Be Trusted Around Other Dogs
Like with any breed, early socialization plays a huge role in how well pit bulls interact with other dogs. If they’re raised around other pups, taught boundaries, and have positive experiences, they can thrive in multi-dog households.
Luna has dog friends she wrestles with at the park, and she’s learned to read signals and avoid dogs who clearly want their space. The problem isn’t the breed—it’s the lack of proper exposure, training, or management.
Pit bulls are social creatures at heart, and with guidance, they’re more than capable of getting along with their four-legged peers.
4. They Lock Their Jaws
This one sounds like it came straight out of a horror movie, but it’s completely false. There’s no special “jaw lock” mechanism in a pit bull’s anatomy—nothing that sets them apart from any other dog in terms of bite structure.
Yes, they have strong jaws. But so do Labradors, German Shepherds, and boxers. What people perceive as “locking” is often just determination or a strong grip during play.
I’ve seen Luna hold on to a tug toy like her life depends on it—but she’ll drop it instantly if I ask. That’s not a lock. That’s enthusiasm.
5. They’re Only Owned by Irresponsible People
Pit bulls unfortunately gained popularity in certain circles for the wrong reasons, which led to unfair stereotypes about the people who own them. But this generalization is not only outdated—it’s offensive.
I know pit bull owners who are teachers, nurses, parents, business owners—you name it.
These dogs are beloved by responsible, loving people who value loyalty, playfulness, and resilience. If anything, the devotion it takes to advocate for your dog in a world full of bias proves just how committed pit bull owners really are.
6. They’re Impossible to Train
This one always makes me laugh. Pit bulls are incredibly smart, sometimes too smart for their own good. They learn commands quickly, pick up on routines, and thrive on structure.
Luna knew sit, stay, and paw within a week of consistent training. With the right motivation—usually treats or belly rubs—pit bulls are eager to learn and please.
If they’re not responding, it’s usually due to unclear communication or lack of consistency, not stubbornness or stupidity. Training isn’t about breed—it’s about the relationship.
7. They’re Not Good Family Pets
This couldn’t be further from the truth. Pit bulls are built for companionship. They want to be involved in everything—family walks, couch cuddles, road trips, even your bathroom breaks.
They’re loyal, affectionate, and thrive when they feel like part of the pack. Luna follows me from room to room, naps at my feet, and greets every family member with tail-wagging excitement.
If you’re looking for a dog who’s fully devoted to their humans, a pit bull is a pretty perfect choice.
8. They’re Only Good as Guard Dogs
People assume pit bulls are naturally suited to guarding because of their muscular build and serious face—but looks can be deceiving. Many pit bulls are way too friendly to be effective watchdogs.
Luna might bark once at the doorbell, but as soon as a stranger steps in, she’s all wiggles and kisses. Their desire to love and be loved often outweighs any instinct to protect.
They’re lovers, not fighters—more likely to roll over for belly rubs than chase off intruders.
9. They Can’t Be Around Small Animals
Introductions matter more than breed. I’ve seen pit bulls living peacefully with cats, rabbits, and even chickens—yes, chickens. The key is patience, controlled interactions, and respecting each animal’s comfort level.
Luna lives with two cats who boss her around on a daily basis. She lets them eat her kibble, take her bed, and swipe her nose without a single growl.
It’s not about “pit bulls can’t”—it’s about “has this dog been taught how?” And when they have, they’re more than capable of gentle coexistence.
10. Breed Determines Behavior More Than Environment
This myth does the most damage. Behavior is shaped by upbringing, training, experiences, and environment—not just DNA.
A golden retriever raised poorly can become fearful or reactive, while a pit bull raised with love and structure can be the sweetest dog you’ll ever meet.
Luna’s gentle nature isn’t because she’s the “exception”—it’s because she was treated with care and respect.
Dogs are products of how we raise them. When we stop blaming breed and start looking at the bigger picture, we create safer, happier homes for everyone.
